"Wanting and Having"

I can't remember where I heard this: "What do you want? Look at what you have." In some way we create what we have, unless of course we're living in a repressive regime or prisonlike place. Similarly a relationship coach told me, "When I meet a couple who say they're not happy, I say, 'So why are you still together? There m ust be something that's working for you.'" Change begins when the balance shifts. But first it's important to see what's working. Careers work this way too. "Why are you still in the same job?" You like what you have and believe it won't happen anywhere else. For weekly articles delivered to your inbox subscribe here.